Things Oklahomans Do That Seem Strange In Other Countries

It's safe to say that I am thrilled about the trip that I'm making to South Korea for my own Christmas present to myself this year.

I've been steady studying things I should know before arriving. As it turns out, many of the things that we do here in America, specifically in Oklahoma, might get some funny looks from the locals in South Korea.

You might be surprised at how many things we also have in common, though. See for yourself how we do things here in Oklahoma compared to the way they're done in South Korea.

Overly friendly and loud behaviors are frowned upon.

Here, we love our football, family, and almost everything loud, like the trucks, the fireworks and other celebrations. But, according to the Soul of Seoul, South Koreans prefer things a lot quieter.

When you're traveling places, like on a subway or a bus, you should avoid talking loudly. "Not only is the noise grating to other people, but so is the language," Hallie Bradley recalled from her time in South Korea. "Generally, it seems that the acceptable level of noise is lower when it's a tourist speaking another language."

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Although they are also supposedly a very friendly country, they show it in a different way. Here in Oklahoma, it's not uncommon to maintain eye contact, wave on the roads (even if you don't know someone), and let's not forget that most of us are huggers.

However, in South Korea, a lot of the things I just mentioned would rub someone very wrong. Unless you know someone well, hugs and even shoulder pats are off limits. And maintaining eye contact, although a sign of respect in America, can be considered confrontational to some.

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But, I love some of their customs that seem to align with a lot of what we stand for in the Sooner state.

Respecting your elders, those with disabilities, and pregnant women is a must.

One of the most important lessons I ever learned here in Oklahoma was to respect your elders. In a world that is so focused on "earning respect," it's becoming rarer to see other people who still have the same set of values.

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Meanwhile, clear across the globe, South Korea takes this value to an entirely new level. Not only do they have designated seating for elderly, pregnant women, and those with disabilities on public transportation, but it's considered rude to turn down a drink with an elder. It's a relief that I won't seem "out of place" when it comes to this custom.

South Koreans also show respect by shaking hands, but in a different way.

Man do I love a good handshake! It's such a small gesture, but it can tell so much about a person: their confidence, the level of enthusiasm they have to meet you, and more. In South Korea, they like to put everything into their handshakes; by that, I mean, they like to put "all two hands" into the gesture.

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And might I add: shaking hands with two hands here in America displays a level of confidence that you rarely see. I highly encourage folks to pick up the habit.

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